When something small sets you off — a tone of voice, a forgotten text, a small dismissal — it's almost never really about that thing. It's about what that thing represents. A small trigger is a Well that's already almost empty.
The size of your reaction is a map to the size of your unmet need. This is not a flaw. It is information.
Before you keep reading — what small thing has set you off recently? What bigger need do you think it was pointing to?
Built exactly for this question:
Before you move on — what's one thing that's true for you right now?
"Your reaction is never too much. It is exactly the right size for the well that is running dry."
Every question, eventually, leads here.
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