Memory is not a recording — it's a reconstruction. Each person filters events through their own emotional state, history, and unmet needs. Two people can experience the same moment and both be telling the truth — just different truths.
This is not about who is lying. It's about how human perception works. The V step in LOVES — Validate — is the practice of acknowledging someone else's reality without erasing your own.
Before you keep reading — think of a shared event you remember differently. What were you feeling in that moment that might have shaped your memory?
Built exactly for this question:
Before you move on — what's one thing that's true for you right now?
"Two truths can exist at the same time. The goal is not to decide which one is right. It's to hold both with care."
Every question, eventually, leads here.
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